The sun set over the University of South Florida as crowds gathered around the amphitheater to Take Back the Night. A bell rang every two minutes, the sound would linger in the air. It was a reminder that with each high-pitched ding another woman was being raped.
Take Back the Night seeks to reclaim the night for women, break the silence and tell the truth about rape.The event was hosted by N.I.T.E at USF. The evening kicked off with a few words by Nicole Sayago, the President of N.I.TE.
She was followed by an emotional performance by Algorhythm Sky,whose lyrics spoke to sexual assault victims, saying “don’t spend your whole life, waiting for your whole life, thinking it’s over.”
Clothing decorated by women affected by violence floated in the air as the band played on, their lyrics fighting boldly for survivors. The evening quickly proved that the small packet of tissues provided by N.I.T.E was a necessity.
Nikki Daniels took the stage, a woman who has been an advocate of survivors for 20 years. After spending so many years working with survivors, Daniels can tell you first hand that they have amazing courage.
She reminded men that they have to take responsibility for the way the culture both treats and talks about women.
Daniels said, men have to say “that is my sister, my mom, my daughter, my friend and it’s not okay that you talk about women that way.”
During the event, the Relationship Equality and Anti-Violence League asked all the men in attendance to stand up and read the R.E.A.L Men’s Promise to End Sexual Violence.
Nearly 70 men stood up to recite the words after Tampa’s gentlemans gentleman Lee Roy Selmon.
The R.E.A.L Men’s Promise encourages by-standers to end the culture that allows for sexual violence and to evaluate the actions of themselves and others.
Sexual violence is just wrong. That’s as simple as we can say it,” said Selmon.
Every person in attendance was asked to participate in the silent march around the heart of campus. Signs were provided and sexual violence statistics rang across the silence. Following the march survivors got the courage to stand and talk about their experiences to educate and prevent others from experiencing the same fate.
A candlelight vigil honoring survivors and a reception closed the evening. However, the evening was not only in honor of the people who spoke out, but the people who are unable to speak.
“It takes all of us to end sexual violence,” said Daniels.
Please visit Take Back the Nite in Hyde Park on Saturday April 16.